First, you need to master financial freedom to build a material foundation for love; second, you need to master time freedom; finally, you need to sacrifice interest freedom.
——Because when a girlfriend is upgraded to a wife, the marriage certificate becomes their invincible trump card: game consoles, computers, SLRs, etc., which cannot be prohibited for straight men to play before marriage, are all interests in their eyes phone number list that are "time-wasting". After marriage, they can confidently threaten them to sell these things on Xianyu.
The old brother in the picture below is an iron-clad case. After getting married, his wife immediately changed his face and refused to let him buy any more games. In desperation, he had to package and sell his beloved PS4:
You may ask, why do these men suddenly become humble after marriage? Because the wives who can afford the marriage certificate as their trump card will naturally also use the divorce certificate to threaten these straight men to obey.